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Tuesday, 19 May 2009

  • In case you've missed me....

    So.... in case you've missed me over the passed few months, here's what's been going on..... i've been really getting to know Redding really well and am totally set in a routine now... i've found this community center for people with mental health issues and i've been hanging out there every weekday and attending a variety of groups on everything from assertiveness to jewelry making and making lots of new friends... it helps fill the time and also i'm learning a lot!!! i have a new therapist that i see twice a month who also specializes in addiction and she is the bomb!!!! i really relate to her well and she is very hands on and seems to always be one step ahead of me with my treatment plan which is how i like it... my sister and i see each other almost every day and have either coffee in the morning or tea in the afternoon or at the very least talk on the phone for a good 45 mins a day and fill each other in on what's going on with ourselves... 

    my cat and i are totally roommates although i'm totally not sure who is the alpha one of us at this point... it's been kinda hot lately and i've found her sleeping in the kitchen sink as i'm sure the metal is cool and i don't have the heart to make her get out... she's going to be one in about 2 weeks and i'm having a little party for her and have invited a couple of friends to have cupcakes at the apartment along with my sister and nephew... people are actually bringing presents lol - ok, call me crazy but i thought it was a fun idea and something different to do... people are totally into it....

    i totally love my apartment and really feel at home there.... my livingroom is tan and brown; my kitchen is red; bathroom is pink and black and the bedroom is sage green and lots of pink.... i have the cutest balcony with wind chimes and plants and lights that look like flowers that were a mother's day present from my sister.... (only one of my kids called me on mother's day but that's ok, we had a nice brunch at my sister's house) i sit out there at night and just relax.... sometimes my cat comes out with me but then it's not always so peaceful lol - especially when she tries to eat my plants but that's ok too... she's my baby....

    turns out i have sleep apnea and am getting one of those masks to sleep in which is a good thing cuz i sleep like shit right now and have done for a while now - i took one of those sleep studies and they decided that i needed one... i go tomorrow to get fitted for it and am totally excited to see how much better i sleep wearing it... i really need to talk to my old roommate (etcactor) to get his opinion on it...

    soooooo things are going pretty good... still going to church... had a dinner for the last supper and i was one of the servers, am listening to christian radio most of the time in the car and praying for help with my issues and i think it's doing some good.... i hope everyone is well... send me a comment and say hi.... i will try and write again sooner next time..... Ciao!!!!!!

Tuesday, 14 April 2009

Wednesday, 18 February 2009

  • Latest news...

    So im writing on my phone so bear with me, but there's been some changes im my life. I've moved into my own apartment and live near my sister. I'm doing really well so far. I have a cat; an 8 month old calico who is energetic and affectionate. My kids are coming to visit in a couple of months and i cant wait to see them! Ive been going to church and joined the worship committee and the pastor is my old pastor from down south. It was very cool to connect with him again. Hope everyone is well. Ciao!

Monday, 27 October 2008

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    Wow... it's been a while....

    Well it's been a while since i last wrote - september 8th to be exact and since i have the opportunity to be online at speeds faster than a snail's pace, i thought i'd update my blog and fill y'all in on the going's on... let's see... where to begin... well we're settled in our house now - sure there are still some boxes to go through in the garage but the house is a home and it's comfortable and cozy... my room is the bomb-diggety done in pink roses and sage green trim... i love it and have a bathroom to match... we're totally adjusted to life in our new home and have been gathering wood from the forrest for our fireplace to keep us warm when it is cold at night... we're doing fine up on our mountain and enjoy our beautiful view and sunsets/sunrises daily... our landlord has had some cows brought up to graze in the pasture right outside out front door and my roommate is on cloud nine, naming them and keeping running count of the number of calves being born each day... it's really quite cute...

    my parents came up for a long weekend visit for my birthday in late september and we had them over for dinner, went to a tea party, went out to eat a couple of times and took a day trip to ashland, oregon... it was one of the nicest visits i've  had with them in my life - it was really fun to hang out with them and they took me shopping for my birthday present and bought me a winter coat, two pairs of jeans, a pink fishing pole and a tackle box and my dad is expecting fish for dinner next time he visits... i thought it would be more fun to take them fishing next time they come...

    there's been some sad going's on too to report... first, i have a friend who has been diagnosed with breast cancer but at last report she had a lumpectomy and they didn't find any cancer that had spread to her lymph nodes so she's in good shape for recovery.... if you would keep her in your prayers and thoughts i would appreciate it... also... my ex-mother-in-law was recently diagnosed with lung cancer and they ran some extensive tests and found her cancer also hadn't spread and they did surgery to remove part of her lung... she got through the surgery fine, however developed some complications during the night and passed away suddenly... we attended her funeral last wednesday and it was an extremely nice service... she was a wonderful woman - a great mother-in-law and a really awesome grandma to my 3 sons... she will be missed by all who knew her...

    i've been spending the week with my parents as i traveled down here to go to the funeral with them... i was kind of nervous about attending it as the divorced wife as i'm never sure of ex-wife protocol on things like this but all went well and i saw some family members that i hadn't seen for years... it's too bad we had to gather for something so sad to see each other again... we've been doing some fun stuff while i've been here - going out for tea/coffee/gelato... shopping a little at the thrift stores... going to the movies and watching out tivo'd shoes on tv at night... plus my mom's made some delicious meals for us including shrimp and scallop pasta!!!! that was truly the best but we also had smothered chicken breasts one night with avocado, tomato, green peppers and onions on them and that was really yummy too - plus we had pizza one night, soup and chibatta (sp) bread sandwiches and pork roast with mashes potatoes - anyone hungry yet???? we went to see The Dutchess w/ Kiera Knightley and it was pretty good - british period piece about the duchess of devonshire in the late 1770's....

    i have a new favorite comedian now - Russell Brand - i saw him on a repeat of the graham  norton show from last year and i haven't laughed so hard in a very long time... he was so funny !!!!!!

    well i guess that's all except for my quitting smoking campaign still going strong - 26 days today as a nonsmoker... has it been easy? on a scale on 1-10 i'd say it's been a 5 once i got past the first few days... i am using the patch but i still crave cigarettes at least once if not twice a day but the craving passes and i'm good again.... i've given myself a month of not smoking to not worry about my eating but that's next - starting november 1st... smaller portions and no large late night snacks... something light is ok but nothing major... that's one of my weaknesses... before i left for my parents' house i had actually lost 5 lbs but kind of by accident and i doubt i've lost anything significant here - we'll see when i get home on tuesday what i weigh... i have a lot of weight to lose but i want to be healthy and in shape and feel good without pain all the time... my exercise goal will start out with three trips to the mailbox - up and down the hill of a driveway we have... i'll increase that as i go along and not smoking will definitely help keep me from getting too out of breath like i was getting...

    Am still in therapy and a really lame group (but i'm still going) and am starting a writing group on fridays next week...

    thanks to everyone who posted a comment on my pulse re: not smoking - appreciate the support!!! i'm going to go try and catch up with some of your blogs listed on my homepage...

    have a great day and keep an eye out for more ramblings from me - i'll keep y'all posted of the happenings !!!!!

    Ciao!!!

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  • i'm just trying to get by in life - mother of 3 kids - divorced - really into movies, coffee, vampires, and strong men.... love romance and frienship --- am bipolar and have borderline personality disorder but am dealing with that.... other than that i just like to write and am glad i found a place to do so.

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  • ToBeReborn
    Hey! I miss you! Come back! Hope everything at the new place is going well. Hope to have you and Michael back soon!
  • iamria
    “It takes courage to love,.. but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know... We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until lif
    • Posted 7/31/2008 9:51 AM
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  • Dimples7687
    I agree, feeling triggers action for me, too. Thought acts as a starting point for me because I use it as a visualization tool. Using thought as a visualization tool allows me to see my step-by-step tracks as to accomplishing whatever may need to be accomplished. Feeling gives you that extra push an
  • Stanelle
    Hi! I just read your comment about bad words that you can't stand and I wanted to tell you that I hate the word.."nigger,.."..too!!
  • BleedingBrain
    i just revamped my daily post to remove toystory no hard feelings just wanted to go with something shorter your comment was very well appreciated but since i edited it, it didn't fit the blog. Be sure to comment on my new blog though. Your thoughts, feelings and comments are appreciated.
  • theatrestarr
    @BleedingBrain - lol when you put it like that.... you cracked me up - and to be honest - i'm not sure of the order lol
  • BleedingBrain
    @theatrestarr - I read ur blurb about you and bursted out laughing when I got to this "[particularly] into movies, coffee, vampires, and strong men...." I though, "in that particular order?" oh you are great. I imagined you on a motorbike with coffee behind a strong guy giving me the mentos smile of
  • theatrestarr
    you don't necessarily have to write here but you can read what i post and then we can talk about it if necessary or if we wanna.... love you
  • theatrestarr
    i am on aol im too but i wanted somewhere to write when i felt like it
  • zachsmamamary
    why are we here instead of aol im?